Steps
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#*If you have a problem, you need to let him/her know - preferably in a clear and calm manner without any yelling. If he says `Are you OK?` and you answer yes, do not expect him to understand that you really meant no. Be honest and open. | #*If you have a problem, you need to let him/her know - preferably in a clear and calm manner without any yelling. If he says `Are you OK?` and you answer yes, do not expect him to understand that you really meant no. Be honest and open. | ||
#*Let him/her know it is safe to open up to you about what he is feeling. Reward his/her trust in you by sympathizing with him/her and, but you don`t need to say much, just listen. | #*Let him/her know it is safe to open up to you about what he is feeling. Reward his/her trust in you by sympathizing with him/her and, but you don`t need to say much, just listen. | ||
| − | #*Don't be afraid to lose him/her or spend every minute fearing the huge pain | + | #*Don't be afraid to lose him/her or spend every minute fearing the huge pain that might cause you. Enjoy each wonderful moment as it happens, and realize that there will never be another one just like it. |
#*Never be pathetic and needy just to make him/her pay attention to you and give you sympathy. | #*Never be pathetic and needy just to make him/her pay attention to you and give you sympathy. | ||
#*A solid relationship should be based on mutual respect; if you are constantly trying to pull him/her down with you, this means you don`t respect him /her enough to want him/her to be happy. If you are depressed, see a doctor - don`t pull some guy/girl into your problems. | #*A solid relationship should be based on mutual respect; if you are constantly trying to pull him/her down with you, this means you don`t respect him /her enough to want him/her to be happy. If you are depressed, see a doctor - don`t pull some guy/girl into your problems. | ||
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